Belonging

For me, belonging has to come first. Motivation to engage is made possible by a sense of shared values, a common goal. As an EA It's a delicate balance to manage proximity and supporting the academic, sensory, and social needs of our learners. Choosing strategies that honor their identity and dignity will convey respect which in turn fosters a sense of belonging.

(from starr.org, 2020) In Native American and First Nations cultures, significance was nurtured in communities of belonging. Lakota anthropologist Ella Deloria described the core value of belonging in these simple words: “Be related, somehow, to everyone you know.” Treating others as kin forges powerful social bonds that draw all into relationships of respect. Theologian Marty observed that throughout history the tribe, not the nuclear family, always ensured the survival of the culture. Even if parents died or were not responsible, the tribe was always there to nourish the next generation.